We’ve invited sexual health educators and sex bloggers to share their #SexEdPornReview thoughts about our new queer porn episode: CrashPad 219: Chocolate Chip and Eros LaFemme. What’s it like to watch a very quiet BDSM scene? How did they communicate consent without the use of words? What stood out about this scene’s depiction of aftercare? This week… CrashPad Episode 219: Chocolate Chip & Eros LaFemme!

But first, THIS thread.

@BlasianBytch ✨???✨ I've been hoping for a Black voice to chime in on this scene & I am so happy & grateful for your feedback! Much love~! ?

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 19, 2016

@eroslafemme Its so rare to see, I remember when I started camming I was afraid to have natural hair because it wasn't "sexy" enough

— N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) July 19, 2016

@BlasianBytch Absolutely. #eurocentricbeautystandards make it hard to get widespread recognition, but that's why there's @CrashPadSeries ?

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 19, 2016

@eroslafemme yep! @CrashPadSeries taught me I didn't have to look like "them" I could unapologetically be me.

— N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) July 19, 2016

SO MANY #SexEdPornReviews!

I had a lot of thoughts about @CrashPadSeries's Episode 219. Too much to fit under 140 characters! #SexEdPornReviews pic.twitter.com/eYZgUayb7b

— The Deaf Queer (@thedeafqueer) July 16, 2016

What a striking episode! There were times during this episode where the sexual tension was so palpable that I actually found myself holding my breath as I gazed intensely at the scene unfolding in front of me. Fully immersed, I felt as if I were physically there as a true observer witnessing an incredibly intimate exchange.

This sensation was facilitated by the deliberate contrast between the two performers. Nonbinary femme cupid Eros LaFemme rocks baby pink rope and Hello Kitty panties while a sterner Chocolate Chip, dressed in all black, explores their body with commanding eyes and a sure hand.

Near-silence for most of this episode makes every utterance all the more intense. A soft giggle. A sharp slap. A gentle gasp. Each time the silence breaks it feels incredibly meaningful.

Throughout the entire episode Chocolate Chip remains fully clothed while still delivering a mesmerizing sexual experience which both performers clearly enjoyed. I think this is so important in terms of challenging the sexual status quo and conventional notions of what constitutes ‘sex’. The simple truth that this episode conveys is that sex comes in all shapes and sizes, and involves all forms of attire, be it rosy rope or black jeans.

~ Emmeline Peaches, @EmmelinePeaches emmelinepeachesreviews.com

Entranced by Choc Chip's quiet domination & how she looks at @eroslafemme https://t.co/0TqPgh1Er9 #SexEdPornReviews pic.twitter.com/siKw7xizO8

— Epiphora (@Epiphora) July 18, 2016

So many sensitive zones are on our bodies waiting for play, explore find their spot,experiment on how to stimulate it #sexedpornreview

— N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) July 19, 2016

The pink. The giggles. The bows. The rope harness. Their smile. @eroslafemme is cute to their core. #aestheticgoals. #SexEdPornReviews

— Squeaky Bedsprings (@Squeaky_Springs) July 18, 2016

strong n silent, got the LQQKs n LUVin all on point over on @CrashPadSeries this week #SexEdPornReviews <3 ! ~ * : pic.twitter.com/p994mn1PG5

— shawné michaelain h. (@cleogirl2525) July 19, 2016

Chocolate Chip is in control, expanding on the different ways to dom from last week they use silence to tease. #Sexedpornreviews

— N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) July 19, 2016

My first #sexedpornreview for @CrashPadSeries and it's brilliant. @eroslafemme and Chocolate Chip deliver a beautiful, raw intensity.

— Lucky Tomaszek (@LuckyInMke) July 19, 2016

Latest review! @CrashPadSeries Ep 219: Chocolate Chip & @eroslafemme #SexEdPornReviews https://t.co/9Ta7F6Mrkj pic.twitter.com/IfVe5xtmrb

— Dr. Victoria Reuveni (@DrVixenne) July 18, 2016

We are more than our nipples & genitals, explore thighs, elbows, napes of necks , backs of knees and be amazed #sexedpornreview

— N'jaila Rhee (@BlasianBytch) July 19, 2016

Powerful nonverbal communication throughout, Chocolate Chip never taking her eyes off of @eroslafemme. #sexedpornreview @CrashPadSeries

— Lucky Tomaszek (@LuckyInMke) July 19, 2016

Seriously though, that scene composition. MMM! How porn is filmed matters more than most realize. #SexEdPornReviews pic.twitter.com/ophUFp992Z

— Mx Nillin Dennison (@MxNillin) July 18, 2016

The way @eroslafemme's body moves in the latest @CrashPadSeries ep is art in motion. I hope we see more from them soon! #SexEdPornReviews

— Emmeline Peaches (@EmmelinePeaches) July 17, 2016

.@eroslafemme's suggestion that communication is the most important part of safe sex is so on-point. #SexEdPornReviews #behindthescenes

— Squeaky Bedsprings (@Squeaky_Springs) July 18, 2016

Stealing Chocolate Chips moves like Melania stole that speech. #MelaniaSpeeches #SexEdPornReviews @CrashPadSeries pic.twitter.com/oeIn1d2So8

— Feelmore (@Feelmore510) July 20, 2016

Aftercare & Behind the Scenes Love

The behind the scenes for this @CrashPadSeries episode is enthralling too (not to mention adorable and insightful!) #SexEdPornReviews

— Emmeline Peaches (@EmmelinePeaches) July 17, 2016

So happy to see that bit of aftercare <3 retying a bow and putting socks back on is a small but adorable action. #SexEdPornReviews #ep219

— Squeaky Bedsprings (@Squeaky_Springs) July 18, 2016

“Aftercare is rarely represented in adult film, and many kinksters say it’s the best part.”
~ Lucky – (Lucky loved the episode so much she wrote a full review. Read Blindfolds, Silence, Aftercare.)

Blindfold, Silence, & Aftercare. A guest review by @LuckyInMke https://t.co/v1pbuVtOdE #SexEdPornReviews #bdsm #kink pic.twitter.com/Ycbbz98yBc

— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) July 19, 2016

That hair, that hair! So fabulous. Great discussion of aftercare in the behind the scenes film. The importance of caring for each other after a scene can be forgotten in the heat of play, even when you are performers in a movie. The responsibility and respect these two feel for each other is important; I like that it is explicitly addressed.
~ Jenny Guérin @writtenbyjenny

The importance of placing aftercare into a scene features in the latest @CrashPadSeries behind the scenes #SexEdPornReviews

— Emmeline Peaches (@EmmelinePeaches) July 17, 2016

Performers say it best!

omg just watched my @CrashPadSeries episode and couldn't stop blushing I'm such a dork aaahhh #porncherrypopped ?☺️?

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 15, 2016

Thoughts watching scene w/ Chocolate Chip: what if…should have…nerves galore…damn we look good…can I do it again? @CrashPadSeries

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 15, 2016

I have the hardest time articulating my thoughts post scene, but I managed… a little? https://t.co/APBNtyy2uB https://t.co/hK4mJysBPU

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 18, 2016

Something I didn't get to see until the @CrashPadSeries ep came out ??? #chills https://t.co/APBNtyy2uB https://t.co/IVhZ8xKhy4

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 18, 2016

Communication only fans the fire when it comes to #safersex practices~? https://t.co/exUiXFF2Tw

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 19, 2016

I want my innocence to inspire your cruelty…? #confessions #masochist #submissive #little https://t.co/APBNtyy2uB pic.twitter.com/EUr3GL0tlt

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 16, 2016

*squeal!* don't mind me, just casually dying over how sweet everyone's being about my first coupled porn scene~ ??❤️ https://t.co/xPRs6ALMVD

— ✨eros✨ (@eroslafemme) July 18, 2016

Thank you Eros LaFemme and Chocolate Chip, and thanks to our panel of sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. What did you think of the episode? (Leave your comments below.) Want to see watch for yourself? Watch here!