Our newest episode stars the return Byron DuBois and new CrashPad visitor, Daizy Blazy. CrashPad performers bring their own ideas and desires to their shoot, and these two brought sexy sweet and communicative energy and an appetite to try out a big new glass toy. We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to watch and share their thoughts about the episode.

But first… a moment to swoon over our stars!

Well y'all it's time for #PornScholarPonderings with a new #SexEdPornReview ofCrashPadSeries episode 296 featuring two beautiful performers: Daizy Blaze and Byron DuBois. It's a sweet episode. Byron and Daizy have great chemistry! — Amanda Hobson

Sexy Subtitles

Did you know that CrashPad has Subtitles on their videos? I love this because sometimes even with headphones on it can be hard to understand what people might be saying. Especially when voices are low.

— Meg aka WitchofTheWands

So we are starting this off with some amazing making out between Daizy and Byron. The subtitles helping me catch the questions asked of removing clothes and squeezing harder as Byron moves down to Daizy's chest. — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Hmmm

Thinking about the concept of Checkov's dildo: if a sex toy is shown in act 1 of a porn it must be inserted by act 3 — Byron Dubois

Warming Up

In this episode, they are working up to taking a rather large dildo (about the size of a forearm) made by HeadstrongFemme. So working yourself up to a toy that is that large is a good call by starting with a smaller toy first.— Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Okay but this handmade dildo from #Queerlymade looks gorgeous! I am always a sucker for glass toys. They are so wonderful to use and always so pretty. — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Your body knows best, listen to it when using a larger toy. Don't try to push yourself. It is easy to injure yourself with a larger toy. — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Daizy goes for the lube before trying to use the glass insertable. That's absolutely necessary for something this large, even with the completely smooth surface of the material. Daizy and Byron also used a toy prior to moving to this large toy. — Amanda Hobson

People enjoy playing with toys of this size (and larger) for lots of reasons. For instance, it can feel exceptionally good, especially along the pain/pleasure dynamic. This is true with the width, length, and the weight of a toy like this. — Amanda Hobson

It's important to "work up" to something like this toy. That includes smaller toys, lube, and stretching. It also means going slow and communicating with your partner(s). Use a thicker lube! (If you're using glass, you can use silicon lube.) — Amanda Hobson

It's important to know the type of materials you're using as toys because that informs the best way to care for them and yourself (lube kind and cleaning instructions). You can check out the amazing information at GoodVibes.com — Amanda Hobson

When you want to do something new or a little experimentative, you want to be clear about what you want to do and what you think you can handle. Byron is pretty clear that they don't think they can take the whole toy and says that. It's okay when you're trying things to go easy — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous

Also, lube. Just…lots of it. There might be a comfort level for the amount of lube for a person (as they might not like the feeling of goopy liquids on them) but you want to make really sure you have plenty of lubrication before you try. Also go slow, it's not a race. ;) — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous

Ask for what you want

And I'm going to point this out every single time I see it, but asking if something your doing during sex needs to be adjusted or to check if it's still good is HOT! Showing the other person you care about their pleasure is..whoo, just kinda the best thing. Please do so. — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous

I love how the transition from one act (Byron blowing Daisy while using a Magic Wand) to the other (Daisy eating Byron out) is handled in the most casual way of "Can I just eat you out?" I know it's a small thing in a really hot scene, but it should really just be that easy — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous

As usual, this episode features Byron and Daizy modeling really spectacular sexual communication. They are asking for what they want or are interested in doing or receiving. They are talking through next steps and what's working or not. — Amanda Hobson

"Squeeze harder." Always helps to ask for what you want. #SubtitlesOn

Byron asks Daizy: “Do you want to try it?” about the Magic Wand, which is a multi-use tool for sexual exploration. It is in many ways a must have for any toolkit because it can really help folks explore their desires. — Amanda Hobson

Byron asks, “Do you want to try the big one," referring to the handmade insertable made by Queerly Made. And big it is…it's the size of Byron's forearm — Amanda Hobson

Representation Matters

Check out the Behind the Scenes! Daizy reminds us about the importance of CrashPad, saying “it helps me with my self-esteem but also with people who might have bodies like mine to like identify with the person who's been on TV or nowadays it's on our phone! — Amanda Hobson

Things We Like

So many great toys used today this shoot: a gorgeous #QueerlyMade glass piece made by HeadstrongFemme, #MagicWandVibrator from GoodVibes.com, and #TransFlagDildo courtesy of BSatelier… and SASSY Sliquid! (Don't forget the lube!)

We LOVE QueerlyMade's artsy glass toys. (And this one perfectly matched Byron’s nails!) See the beautiful + functional toy in-action on CrashPad!

Also, I LOVE the look of that glass toy in the video. It's really pretty looking and it makes me really want to try out a glass toy. From the conversations I've had, the weight of them feel entirely different and I'm real curious to see how I'd like it. — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous

The custom made toy is a beautiful piece of art. The artist, HeadstrongFemme, has done an exceptional job of making a piece that is unique, intriguing, and lovely. It's the type of toy you could leave sit out as a decor. — Amanda Hobson

It looks like the vibrator being used is the Rocks Off? — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

And what looks to be Sliquid Sassy! — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Already spotting two favorites! First being the Trans Silicone Dildo by BSatelier — Meg aka WitchofTheWands

Our toy sponsor BSatelier gifted us a Trans Flag Dildo! Thanks for supporting our company and community.

Thanks for the Love!

Keeping a sex spreadsheet, using different sex toys in different ways, the deal with yes/no/maybe lists, what to do if you feel lonely and more. — Autostraddle

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Behind the scenes

I’ll be inside this cutie in T minus’s idk however many minutes and I can’t WAIT!☺️ — Daizy Blaze

And we’re live! Tune in and watch as we film a new CrashPad episode! #CrashWithUs

Okay but y'all just wait and see what Daizy Blaze managed to fit in my body on CrashPadSeries because WOW — Byron Dubois

I CAN'T BELIEVE THIS FIT IN MY VAGINA IM SO PROUD OF ME — Byron Dubois

But is it really a good porn shoot day if you don't order sushi afterwards? — Byron Dubois

Post-shoot drinks with Byron DuBois

Coming up next…

We're filming on Saturday October 12th with Ruby Riots and Zoie Blackheart! Here's peek behind the scenes at Zoie's last shoot with us.

Thank you!

Thank you Byron and Daizy, and thank you sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see for yourself? Watch here!