Our newest episode stars the return Valerie Paige and new CrashPad visitor, Jacquie Blu. We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to watch and share their thoughts about the episode.
But first… a moment to swoon over our stars!
Welcome VALERIE PAIGE back to the CrashPad!
"I'm very passionate about queer activism and how it relates to erotic art/porn, given the empowerment so many queers have gained from porn performers and sex works."
Please welcome our newest CrashPad star JACQUIE BLU!
"I was told I would never make it as a model… but instead of making me want to quit, it just made me more determined to prove myself."
Post-Op Porn Stars are Here to Stay
"I do it as a matter of erotic art. I do it for activism, especially now, being post-op. People have told me that I’d have no future in porn…But you know what? Yeah, I do. It’s as simple as that. I am here to stay.” ~ Valerie Paige
In case you missed it, here's the video I did regarding my coming out as bigender (non binary trans woman), addressing some of the misconceptions I've encountered since my announcement — Valerie Paige
And in the case of porn, I'm focusing on working with awesome people, creating erotic art for queer audiences, and creating more visibility for post op trans women, non binary folks, and people who don't fit in with the rigid girl-next-door aesthetic.
I'm finally embracing me
— Valerie Paige
Making it
“I was told I would never make it as a model, but instead of making me want to quit, it just made me more determined to prove myself.” ~ Jacquie
And I also just love that Jacquie and Valerie are doing the scene. As someone that rarely gets to see someone like themselves in media in general, let alone porn, I'm always going to want to see more different types of people than what is "standard" and I'm glad to see that here. — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka A_MrPromiscuous
Sensual Massage
Sexy massage is a great way to get aroused and Valerie’s response to Jacquie’s erotic moaning reminds us that sounds make all the difference, too! — Yael Rosenstock (she/her)
I do really like sensual massage as a start to sexy times. For one, it can help people relax and get really in the mood rather than carrying tension in from their day or whatever might be on their mind. Plus you get a bit of playfulness between Valerie and Jacquie. — Mixter Promiscuous Ver.3.5 aka Mr. Promiscuous
As things move from the massage to the "deep massage", I really like that there's a clear check-in for Jacquie to see if she's definitely down with this. Remember, enthusiastic yeses are the best kinds and you should make sure you get one before getting into things. — Mixter Promiscuous
Lubes and Silicone
(If you're worried about the lube damaging your dildo, then make sure to put a condom over it. Latex and polyurethane don't react with silicone, so it makes a great barrier as well as making clean-up easier when you're all tired and worn out — Mixter Promiscuous
Thank you!
Thank you Jacquie and Valerie, and thank you sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see see for yourself? Watch here!