We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to share their thoughts about episode 283, which stars the return of Emma Claire with her girlfriend and first time CrashPad visitor Lilian Rose. Our performers script their scenes and bring their own sex acts and desires to the set, and in this scenario the real-life couple brought a bratty paddle, leather gloves, and connected lesbian sex. Icing on the cake, this episode release had perfect timing. Happy Birthday, Lilian! This week… CrashPad Episode 283: Emma Claire and Lilian Rose.

But first… a moment to swoon over our stars

What a rad birthday present from CrashPadSeries – my scene is out with the gorgeous Emma Claire and now the world is blessed with this image. Truly a gift! — Lilian Rose

"When Emma Claire says she brought her favorite sex toy, does she mean her leather gloves, or Lilian Rose?…"

"This was a really personal scene for me, because of you and because of us…"
~ Emma Claire, Behind the Scenes

I'm loving how much Emma Claire and Lilian Rose are complimenting each other throughout Ep283. Telling your partner(s) how much you love their body during play can rarely go wrong!
— Lynsey G aka MissLagsalot

Mommy Play!

And what an interesting dynamic. Mommy play (a role-play with one person taking a nurturing, protective role akin to a loving mother) is an interesting sort. You can feel who's in charge, but even at it's roughest, there's a feeling of warmth that works well with the scene. — Mr. Promiscuous

There is also a great Caretaker dynamic in this and you should read my thoughts about being a femme daddy here. — Carly S.

Okay let's take a moment to discuss #MommyPlay in sexual relationships. I'm glad to see some of it in CrashPadSeries. It's become so normalized to hear "Daddy" language mainstream porn, but rarely does its "Mommy" counterpart get depicted. — Lynsey G

I love any type of Mommy/Little play. I think that these aren't really explored but having those types of dynamics are really good for us! They are just as important as Daddy/little dynamics, even through being so different.

Also, this paddle is something I NEED. — Indigo is an Adult

Leather Love

(Quick kinky tip: You can very easily change the sensation of your spanking scene by having different things on your hands. Bare hands feel different than vinyl gloves and different than leather gloves. Definitely try it out if that's something your into.) — Mr. Promiscuous

wearing a leather glove while spanking, not only changes the way your hand feels, but adds elements of using a paddle and gives the skin variety. Try using wool, velvet, or silk gloves to change the feeling of a spanking. — Carly S.

A bit more on spanking play — spanking as foreplay can lighten and intensify the mood. As can a little hair-pulling and dirty talk that it pairs so well with. — Lynsey G

Trans Lesbian Visibility

Ok, before I get off (of here), I want to say how much I really like the interviews that CrashPad does after. Listening to Emma Claire talk about both feeling inspired by and inspiring other trans women is a gem for me. — Julie Aurora

When I watched the BTS video, I was struck how Emma said that she was able to come out because she saw another trans woman in porn and that was great! I know my life's been improved by seeing queer, black people in all sorts of media. — Mr. Promiscuous

Thank you!! Seeing transfemme representation in queer porn was a big reason I came out in the first place. It’s important work — Emma Claire

It's fascinating watching CrashPad Ep 283 cause I'm seeing a LOT of sex happening in the ways that I have it. Like, it's almost surreal seeing Lilian stroking Emma while she's being fingered, just like may partner does with me. — Mx Nillin

Like, between the light choking, subtle face fucking, spanking, fingering, the ravenous oral sex, and that bit of cum play, it was like watching flashbacks to the group sex I had with my partners literally a couple days ago. Seeing relatable sex is so great ❤️ — Mx Nillin

LOVING all the girldick focus and worship going on throughout the first several moments of CrashPad Episode 283! As a person with a girlcock myself, it's always awesome seeing queer empowering porn featuring people with similar genitals as mine ♥️ — Mx Nillin

"I came out because of seeing a trans woman in queer porn," says Emma in the BTS, discussing the importance of representation in media. That is a big. freaking. deal. — Lynsey G

Choking

Choking by squeezing the sides of the neck and not putting too much pressure of the actual windpipe is the ideal and safest way to choke someone. Emma is a great example of how to choke your partner! — Carly S.

Fuck I keep wanting to write on here, but have been way to distracted to even take a minute. This scene involving finger fucking and a hand on the throat has really got me!! I love choking so much! — julie aurora

Alright, for everyone interested, choking is something of a hot topic in the kink community. Some people don't want to ever do it, because of the inherent risks above the usual for what might seem like a light scene. Others think that, as long as your attentive, it's fine. — Mr. Promiscuous

Okay, so…choking. First off, there is a light choking scene in this one, so if that's something your sensitive to, you'll want to skip the majority of the fisting portion of the scene. — Mr. Promiscuous

I'm not one to shame anyone for what they do consensually, however this is definitely a 300 level kink move. You have to know where you're gripping, how hard you’re gripping, and how your partner reacts at different amounts of choking. You definitely DO NOT do this when you're new! But you CAN try it, but just like with any sort of kink where things can go bad quickly, you have to make sure to communicate BEFORE you start, keep a very close eye DURING, and make sure to fully check your partner AFTER you've stopped. — Mr. Promiscuous

Fisting

I absolutely LOVE Emma's face during the fisting section of the scene. She just had this delighted glee in her eyes as she's getting a REAL good rhythm going and Lilian is crying out how good it was. Hands down, that was one of my favorite parts. — Mr. Promiscuous

Things we Like

Shout out to the Sliquid Sassy lube in this scene. My favorite is satin but there are so many good, body safe options. Good lube will change your life! — Carly S.

Okay I probably say this every time I do #sexedpornreviews BUT I seriously just love seeing the application of lube in porn. LUBE IS YOUR FRIEND. It's sexy as hell, because it's an indication of what will happen next. And that is pleasure. — Lynsey G

Brats are at it!

I also love the dynamic between Emma and Lilian. Brats are always a great thing, since I find that they make it easy to find reasons to "punish" them. Plus the playful aspects of that sort of play are always fun. — Mr. Promiscuous

The moments after

I love this ☺️☺️ — Lilian Rose

Behind the Scenes

So excited to film this scene with my real-life girlfriend, Emma Claire and CrashPadSeries!! — Lilian Rose

Emma and I have been having so much fun planning out what we want to do for our scene – it's going to be a very rare opportunity to see me bottom! Sorry, Daddies, 2019 is the Year of Mommy — Lilian Rose

"Exploration in sexuality and education is really important, and I'm really excited to be a part of it."—Lilian is speaking my language. — Lynsey G

The Reviews Are In

I wrote about CrashPadSeries Episode 283, featuring Emma Claire and Lilian Rose for #SexEdPornReviews! https://t.co/lbsXKS5JdY

— Kelvin Sparks ⚡

See all my thoughts about CrashPadSeries episode 283 here.— Carly S. (Makeupandsin)

Trans dyke and Femme fun on our newest CrashPad! Have a happy sexy weekend babes! — Ava

OMG Emma fucking Lilian, ejaculating on her tummy, then scooping the cum up & feeding it into her eager mouth… YES. That's, yeah, that's my fucking jam. If you've read my blog for any period of time, you know that's the sex I'm all about ?❤️ — Mx Nillin

This episode is full of chemistry between the performers and actual pleasure. The whole scene just feel natural and unforced. You see the two of them just enjoy each other and it's sexy as hell and you should watch for yourself! — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

Thanks for the love!

NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: You will never get closure, how to relearn how to masturbate as a trans women, golden showers and more. — Autostraddle

We recruit!

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Thank you!

Thank you Emma and Lilian, and thanks to our panel of sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see see for yourself? Watch here!