We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to share their thoughts about episode 285, which stars a new CrashPad visitor Spookyfatbrat. CrashPad performers script their scenes and bring their own sex acts and desires to the set, and in this scenario, Spooky shared a solo scene with a lot of self-love. This week… CrashPad Episode 285: Spookyfatbrat’s solo.

Self-care is the revolution

"Self-care is the revolution." ~ spookyfatbrat

Watch the latest CrashPad episode, a starring Spookyfatbrat (and the infamous Magic Wand Vibrator) on CrashPad

And since we're on the topic, Masturbation as self-care is a GREAT way to help yourself and others. It gives you a nice stress relief that you can dictate yourself. It's a great way to figure out what does and doesn't work for you, meaning you can better direct a partner.— Mr. Promiscuous

Honestly I fucking LOVE watching solo scenes where it's very obvious that the person in them knows their body, knows what they like, and isn't afraid to adjust themself to feel even better. That sends such positive messages for learning about and loving your body. — Mx Nillin

Checking out the new episode (285) of CrashPad featuring the beautiful spookyfatbrat, which is a solo scene focused on self-care. That's not just a naughty innuendo either…though naughty innuendo is ok too. Sex is self-care; masturbation is self-care — Amanda Hobson

Self-care comes in all sorts of ways. What are the things that you do to help yourself recharge, reconnect, and ground yourself? What's in your toolkit or toy box that can help you do those things for you? — Amanda Hobson

I'm totally here for calling out sick to masturbate. Our culture works ourselves to death (no ethical consumption under capitalism) and I feel like is more folks took days off for self care, whatever that is for them, we might be happier as a country — Carly S. (Makeupandsin)

Bottom line is take care of yourself, taking days off for you mental health can actually prevent you from getting physically sick. And there are tons of reasons why you should masturbate! — Carly S. (Makeupandsin)

Representation Matters

A2. The only porn I can find that I feel even remotely represented in is from crashpad. they have a wide range of queer folks and and people who do other kinds of sex work. Besides that making porn as chloe venom is the only way I truly see myself. #SexTalkTuesday — Carly S. (Makeupandsin)

this is why i love Love CrashPadSeries ^_^ — Raul Rex aka RaulRex7

I know I'm predictable but any Curvy Femme with tattoos is automatically going to steal my heart. So I'm obviously super excited to see SpookyFatBrat on CrashPadSeries with my all time favorite toy the Magic Wand — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

I know I've talked a lot about representation in porn but to see a curvy femme with tattoos just loving on herself is so empowering to folks like me. Especially with companies like CrashPad because they don't shoot porn for the male gaze so it's different. — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

Going Solo

Our hero calls off work so she can spend some quality sexy time with herself with her "favorite toys," which is pretty epic. She says this is "so much better than work." I love this idea of role playing even when solo. — Amanda Hobson

So, this is the first solo porn that I've done for these and it's immediately a different kind of hot. Solo scenes, along with feeling more intimate, feel more…taboo, I guess. It feels more invasive and voyeuristic than scenes with multiple people. — Mr. Promiscuous

For some folks, sexual exploration through solo sex can also be beneficial in the aftermath of trauma. Solo sex can help us reconnect to our bodies and to pleasure that may have been co-opted or dampened. Solo sex can give us a much stronger feeling of control.— Amanda Hobson

And Spooky is great in the scene, too! She sounds and acts the whole time like this is exactly what she needs. And self-care is definitely something that everyone needs at some point, whether it be a nice cup of tea or a good, self-induced orgasm. — Mr. Promiscuous

I'm doign this month for CrashPadSeries is for a solo masturbation scene because all this month I'm also blogging about sexual pleasure, including a LOT of 'bating, as self-care in the 2019 #30DayOrgasmFun event. Thanks, universe! — Mx Nillin

I'm really grateful for CrashPadSeries giving us episodes that highlight solo sex as a reminder to find the things that give us pleasure, to take time to love ourselves, and to remember that we have to prioritize ourselves and our body's needs and desires. — Amanda Hobson

Edging yourself is another great way to make your orgasms more intense. Keep bringing yourself to the edge without letting yourself reach climax until you're ready to finally give in to pleasure. The more arousal you build the more intense the release. — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

Vibrators are for every body

It's great to see a wand prominently featured in yet another CrashPadSeries episode. It's one of my favorite kind of sex toys because it can be used by anyone! For people with a penis, check out my tips on getting great orgasms from frenulum stimulation. — Mx Nillin

Final thoughts find Magic Wands and lube through the amazing GoodVibes, which is such a great resource for finding toys (tools) for your sexual self-care kit. Magic Wands really are one of the most versatile tools. — Amanda Hobson

Warming up with intense toys like the Magic Wand through your underwear is a great way to build up sensation and start slow. You have to allow your body to get warmed up to get the best orgasms you can get. Get your own magic wand here — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

By the way, it's totally a myth about vibrators desensitizing you. What the issue is, is doing the same thing every time. Your body gets used to anything. So change up positions, use different toys, levels of vibration or even pulsation patterns — Carly S. aka Makeupandsin

Things we Like…

Thank you BSatelier for the beautiful bounty of toys! Today Spookyfatbrat picked the GSpot Bi dildo as her lucky co-star. #ThingsWeLike

That could be the perfect Monday morning plan: stay at home with your bsatelier dildo, and enjoy yourself…#masturbation #pleasure #femaleempowerment — BS Atelier (@BSatelier)

Behind the Scenes

Hey babes! We’re going live with our first shoot of today w Spookyfatbrat! Members can watch us on the voyuercam — Ava

We're filming a special solo scene with spookyfatbrat OMG!!

It’s a wrap! Thank you Spookyfatbrat for a super solo scene… coming soon!

Coming up next…

Good news! "CrashPad's Guide to Fisting" by Shine Louise Houston will be screened at the London PornFilmFestival during a special presentation by guest of honor, Lina Bembe!

We've donated a few CrashPad Memberships to Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit.

Performers have the final words. (And if you subscribe to our site through their link, they make 40%!

Thank you! I was way nervous.. but had so much fun and an authentic explosive orgasm haha — ᔕᑭOOKYᖴᗩTᗷᖇᗩT

Self Care is the revolution — ᔕᑭOOKYᖴᗩTᗷᖇᗩT

Thank you!

Thank you Spookyfatbrat, and thank you sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see see for yourself? Watch here!