Nicolai Notwithstanding
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About Me: I am a nationally ranked powerlifter (#3 in my weight class), a writer & philosopher, a trainer/strength coach. I have a rich family & domestic life, & live in the country not far from San Francisco. I am a long-time s/m player; a heavy-handed, dominant fucker with a sweet temperament.
Turn Ons: Big people, dominance & submission, fucking really well, people joyous in their embodiment, those whose insides match their outsides, deep integrity & passion.
Who I'd Like to Meet: Smart, articulate, experienced players of any gender/sexuality, classic beauty, paradigmatic perversion, those joyous in their embodiment, those who give it up easily & prettily, & those who give it up with a struggle.