We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to share their thoughts about episode 260, which features a new CrashPad couple, Emperatrix and Nicki Honey.
CrashPad performers script their scenes and bring their own sex acts and desires to the set, and in this scenario, the two really wanted to show how they define boundaries when negotiating a scene that depicts consensual non-consent. While check-ins happen pre-shoot, these two took it a step further to rehearse lines so their plot introduction would show it! What did our reviewers think of the episode? (Spoiler, they loved it!) This week… CrashPad Episode 260: Emperatrix and Nicki Honey.
But first… a moment to swoon over our stars
Welcome NICKI HONEY to the CrashPad!!! #femme #qtpocsupremacyhttps://t.co/JCOD5eE3QJ pic.twitter.com/0FDZvyUuJI
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
Please welcome EMPERATRIX to CrashPad!!! #brujafeminista #femme https://t.co/DqjII15xQG pic.twitter.com/DjccuA8GJr
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
NEW on CrashPad… episode 260 stars Nicki Honey & Emperatrix! https://t.co/hUlLGMGCuT #Femme #qtpocsupremacy #brujafeminista pic.twitter.com/leLZV6fMN2
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
Kinky queer femme bruja Daddy fucking POC bebes on a very special @CrashPadSeries Ep 260: Emperatrix and Nicki Honey // check out that phat pink collar with hidden lingerie under a button up ?? ?https://t.co/r2nDa3miW3
— AJAPORN? (@AJAPORNFILMS) April 3, 2018
We couldn’t agree more.
"I always get sad scrolling through pages of porn trying to find people that look like me and have sex like I do. So I might as well be the one on camera!" ~ Nicki Honey pic.twitter.com/HlPoKuiBYw
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
Why did you want to do CrashPad?
"I think of this as healing. Being able to choose to have the sex I want, and I think is super important for survivors and folx moving through reclaiming body/sexual autonomy." ~ Emperatrix pic.twitter.com/IElCTaguJ7
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
Representation Matters
So both @CrashPadSeries performers talk about representation in porn and that's super important to me. I grew up mixed Afro-Dominican and Polish Jew, and I rarely see folks that look like me. When I do, they're usually being fetishized in a really unsexy way. #sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
I crave seeing other Brujas making magic on camera. And I love that Emperatrix is a radical sex educator like myself. And that Nicki Honey actively seeks out performers that they can relate to. #sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
Kink with a Smile
I LOVE giggling during scenes. Crying can really get me into a deeper subspace, but laughing puts me a lighter, different headspace that makes me feel more like I'm glowing rather than sinking. #SexEdPornReviews
— Nicole G. (@nicoleguappone) April 10, 2018
Functional Accessories
Seriously, look at this playfighting! They both look like they're having so much fun, and it's so hot! Not usually into collars but having Thinky Thoughts about their potential for this kind of play #SexEdPornReviews @CrashPadSeries pic.twitter.com/ArGC85KwTL
— Pillow Princess (@PillowPrincessR) April 7, 2018
CONSENT… even when the theme is “non-consent”
Nicki and Emperatrix negotiate a consensual non-consent play ON-SCREEN. We know that folks negotiate behind the scenes, but seeing it in the flesh makes it so much more!! pic.twitter.com/VsmImZji4o
— Jess Melendez (@realtalk_jess) April 10, 2018
Seriously, knowing the difference between a “play NO” and a “real NO” is important..and super hot.
— Jess Melendez (@realtalk_jess) April 10, 2018
Watching @CrashPadSeries Episode 260: Emperatrix and Nicki Honey and already loving the pre-scene negotiation. "I really like to say 'no' and you can keep going, but if I say 'no, thank you' or 'red,' then that's a real no." #SexEdPornReviews
— Nicole G. (@nicoleguappone) April 10, 2018
Joining in on the fun with my first #sexedpornreviews with @CrashPadSeries! Look at this cute brat! Did I mention #boundary negotiations on-screen????? pic.twitter.com/yDb9ZmMdjn
— Jess Melendez (@realtalk_jess) April 10, 2018
I adored Emperatrix's slightly bashful yet very confident "Instead of asking 'Is this okay?' can I say 'Can you take this you little bitch?' so it seems you don't have control over the situation but you totally do?" #SexEdPornReviews @CrashPadSeries
— Pillow Princess (@PillowPrincessR) April 7, 2018
Wonderful example of checking in without changing the atmosphere #SexEdPornReviews @CrashPadSeries
— Pillow Princess (@PillowPrincessR) April 7, 2018
As a sex educator I love using porn as a visual reference for things I'm teaching about & it is nearly impossible to find representations of consent negotiations. This is simply amazing. They even go in depth about which words mean hard no, & which mean ease up.#sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
No isn't typically a good safe word because sometimes saying no can be part of a fun game. But only if you discuss it first! Saying no, and struggling or nearing boundaries can be intimate and fun with consent!#sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
The bratty bottom who fights and doesn't just give up their submission is something I don't think mainstream porn has explored a ton of. And it's a fun dynamic to watch. Sometimes the struggle is part of the fun. #sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
Really into both of their verbal check-ins throughout their scene. Scenes can get intense when constant physical impact is happening. Re-triggering is real.
— Jess Melendez (@realtalk_jess) April 10, 2018
Things We Like
#ThingsWeLike The DEMOGORDON dildo by @bad_dragon — as seen on CrashPad (with Nicki Honey and Emperatrix)! Get your own, here: https://t.co/7EoTnSqDfa pic.twitter.com/hnjIVbAihs
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 30, 2018
Aren't sex toys so amazing? Just look at @bad_dragon's DEMOGORDON dildo — as seen on CrashPad! #ThingsWeLike https://t.co/7EoTnSqDfa pic.twitter.com/vBM1TxxLDp
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 31, 2018
The dildogorgon.
— Allman Brothers (@FillmoreEast71) March 31, 2018
I greatly appreciate Nicki just using their body with no harness to penetrate Emperatrix. #sexedpornreviews #makeitwork pic.twitter.com/x2tdt3ODfj
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
More #ThingsWeLike… rope bondage! (And info about how to tie things like chest harnesses seen here on Nicki Honey, and tips on how to play safely.)
Check out our "Learning the Ropes: A Peek at CrashPad’s Kinky Queer Bondage" guide here: https://t.co/af7DdP0Tcf pic.twitter.com/ZDhwBGlRKy
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 31, 2018
Cutiepox on @CrashPadSeries Ep 260: Emperatrix sweetens Nicki Honey's pot // feat a cameo from a little black rope ? ? ⛓ https://t.co/au5BBWojgQ pic.twitter.com/juAEtRQX7o
— AJAPORN? (@AJAPORNFILMS) April 4, 2018
Reviews are in…
Read all my thoughts in one place herehttps://t.co/PLn69YOztF@CrashPadSeries #sexedpornreviews
— Carly S. ☠ (@Makeupandsin) April 10, 2018
Behind the Scenes
Do you watch CrashPad's behind the scenes videos? In our newest episode, Emperatrix and Nicki Honey discuss porn as sex education, safer sex as community care, and representation in trans porn. https://t.co/hUlLGMGCuT #SexEdPornReviews #SexualHealth #QPOC pic.twitter.com/e8Zgt29Ll8
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 5, 2018
The performers' Behind the Scenes conversation was so important: doing porn as a way to assert bodily autonomy, safer sex as community protection, representing diverse bodies and different ways of having sex, etc. #SexEdPornReviews
— Nicole G. (@nicoleguappone) April 10, 2018
Still Holding Each Other
The adult film industry is not immune to the fallouts of #SESTA/#FOSTA. Many performers we work with are directly impacted, fighting for rights and safety.
We encourage fans and fellow studios alike to take action. Call senator. Be an ally. Make your support known! #letussurvive pic.twitter.com/9JVnl55Xtu— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 11, 2018
Share this video to help educate people about what it’s like to work in adult film. Thank you, @AmarnaMiller! We love you. ? https://t.co/mcBXiwMtwK
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 7, 2018
We love you, @_Qtip_! Check out this interview with CrashPad Star Q on the Brown Chicken Brown Cow Podcast. @BCBCPodcast https://t.co/PS70A9L3xg
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 7, 2018
Wanna join our #SexEdPornReview Team?
ATTN: sex nerds! We're seeking sex bloggers and sexual health educators interested in joining #SexEdPornReviews to review/tweet about new CrashPad episodes, normalizing discussions of porn and sexuality, especially queer and trans folks. Is this YOU? Email Info@PinkWhite.biz
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 3, 2018
Coming up next…
Our next CrashPad production day is Saturday, April 14th. We'll be working with @bootblackpigrrl + @ViverosityX and @tinahornsass + @electrix_ohms. Peek behind the scenes with our voyeur cam to see what it's like to make queer porn! #CrashWithUs https://t.co/BoXectHHCa
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) March 29, 2018
A big thanks to @CrashPadSeries for supplying a 1-month membership to every prize bundle. Also, @sliquid for supplying lube to many bundles. I was floored by the generosity of so many companies – there's so much good stuff here to win!! https://t.co/GRIfCA5Ajb pic.twitter.com/eQApVTvsF9
— Lilly – I'm no 4-letter flower (@dangerouslilly) April 3, 2018
New York! We're screening "CrashPadSeries Volume 8" at a release party for Math Magazine's newest issue. Check it out! #QueerPorn #NewYork @math_magazine @CrashPadSeries https://t.co/BtuzGrueTb pic.twitter.com/ZdxE9ZSuIs
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) April 10, 2018
Thank you Emperatrix and Nicki Honey! Thanks to our panel of sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see see for yourself? Watch here!
