We invited sexual health educators, sex bloggers, and porn geeks to share their thoughts about episode 279, which features two new CrashPad visitors: Megan Reeves and Blair. Our performers script their scenes and bring their own sex acts and desires to the set, and in this scenario the two brought switchy trans femme sex, complete with the magic wand vibrator, a wooden paddle, and plenty of consent check-ins. This week… CrashPad Episode 279: Megan Reeves and Blair.
But first… a moment to swoon over our stars
"I want to see more TPOC in porn. I never thought it'd be me in front of the camera." …Welcome BLAIR to the CrashPad! https://t.co/PwxI5L0nNr pic.twitter.com/QZjdvjYaIv
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 6, 2019
"I feel like a lot of porn caters to straight cis men and I wanted to be a part of something that represents queer and trans sexuality away from the cis male gaze." Welcome MEGAN REEVES to the CrashPad! https://t.co/70Izdtosg3 pic.twitter.com/neo7V3QVVw
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 6, 2019
NEW on CrashPad… Episode 279 stars Megan Reeves and Blair!
Megan Reeves bosses Blair about, teasing her to the brink of cumming with a Magic Wand. Blair begs for and eventually receives that orgasm… #TransFemme #QTPOC #FemmeTophttps://t.co/yR13jZTFZ6
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 6, 2019
Happy new year! ? welcome to @CrashPadSeries 2019 – #transfemme cuties in super gay love scene #t4t #ajafav ?? https://t.co/QoxsIF84Bl
— AJAPORN? (@AJAPORNFILMS) January 7, 2019
Here's a fun little preview pic
Episode 279: Blair and Megan Reeves – Two switchy transfemmes enjoying bondage, a paddle, and a magic wand vibrator. ??? #SexEdPornReviews@CrashPadSeries https://t.co/ElFYEeMayT pic.twitter.com/gxILRpD2Id— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
Representation Matters
"When it comes to porn and erotica, I want to see more of 'me' out there. And I'm sure I'm not the only person — so this is a way to do that… This is a great way to celebrate." ~ Blair on @CrashPadSeries
Watch our newest episode:https://t.co/yR13jZTFZ6 pic.twitter.com/30g4IFjPix
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 10, 2019
Megan and Blair are simply beautiful and their exploration of each other is wonderful and reminds us that we all experience our genders and sexualities in diffeeent ways and that too is a beautiful thing. (Plus we get to see the gorgeous women in pleasure. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
One of the beautiful things about this episodes is seeing queer femme trans women represented as authentic sexual beings negotiating their own sexual desire. Representation is crucial because it allows folks to see themselves or folks like them. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Blurring the lines of reality and fantasy
I loved this scene because, as most of the time with @CrashPadSeries I feel like a lucky voyeur into someones sex life vs. watching something more mainstream where it seems more fake.
Fake can be hot. DON'T GET ME WRONG…#SexEdPornReviews— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
CrashPad allows us as the viewers to see ourselves represented on screen because it embraces the diversities of gender and sexualities. CrashPad grants us the opportunity to not only see ourselves reflected but to explore our own desires through the performers. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Use your words. (And toys, if that’s what the words call for.)
"Do you want it, or do you need it?" I wish everyone was just here watching this with me. This is the part where I get to drool over the magic wand, which I still do not have! I did get to use it in a dungeon a few times& it was awesome, so I can imagine…#SexEdPornReviews
— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
"Do you want it, or do you need it?" I wish everyone was just here watching this with me. This is the part where I get to drool over the magic wand, which I still do not have! I did get to use it in a dungeon a few times& it was awesome, so I can imagine…#SexEdPornReviews
— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
Explicit and Enthusiastic
"let me know if theres anything I Can do differently"
This is the kind of questions I needed to see and hear modeled as a teen!#SexEdPornReviews— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
One of the things that’s incredibly important in any type of power exchange is open communication, which Blair & Megan engage in. Power exchanges can be physically and emotionally intense—sometimes overwhelmingly so, which is why communication is so fundamental. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
"is it an enthusiastic yes or a no?"
what a FANTASTIC question!!!@CrashPadSeries #SexEdPornReviews— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
I mean watch @CrashPadSeries or read My Monster Boyfriend by Iron Comics. In these beautiful and brilliant sources, people will see all kinds of super sexy, enthusiastic, on-going consent. #EthicalPorn #FeministPorn #QueerPorn #SexEdPornReviews #PornScholar
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 8, 2019
Megan: “Let’s see what else I have in my magical bag.” This is the moment when a sub can get simultaneously ridiculously excited & a bit nervous because who knows what can come out of the Domme’s “magic bag,” which is why pre-negotiation and safe words are key. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Non-Verbal Consent
When Megan pulls out that paddle—ooh things get a bit real. Blair’s reaction is adorable. While this is a moment that doesn’t have a verbal moment of consent, Megan pauses and Blair gives physical consent to the spanking by clearly moving her body into position. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Let’s talk about RACK
Remember y’all, when playing within the boundaries of BDSM, consent is paramount. We talk about risk-aware consensual kink for a reason…informed consent is at the heart of that but so is negotiating boundaries as well as interests ahead of a scene. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Part of BDSM is understanding that safewords and consent go beyond just physical acts. Because power exchanges can open up a great deal of emotional responses, that is in part what that on-going consent (RACK) is about. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
So what is risk-aware consensual kink (RACK)? RACK has begun to be used by some in the BDSM community instead of the idea of safe, sane, & consensual (SCC) because in many way those words are inherently subjective. One person’s not safe is another person’s kink. #SexEdPornReview pic.twitter.com/JscV64oBvP
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Sometimes Less is More
I love that Megan keeps Blair's panties on – I LOVE Playing with my panties on for as long as possible, such a turn on waiting for them to be removed ? #SexEdPornReviews @CrashPadSeries
— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
Things we like
OH… a collar! a collar!!!!! #SexEdPornReviews pic.twitter.com/daxo5c4AZN
— Megan Ashley (@XoMeganAshley) January 13, 2019
Don’t forget the lube because everything is better with lube. #SexEdPornReview Also Sliquid is completely great. https://t.co/kwuSnKDBfW
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Also remember if you don’t have one already, you can indeed have your very own Magic Wand. I mean it has been featured in every episode of @CrashPadSeries that I can remember. So grab yours at https://t.co/2zNrNRX4VX #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
The @Scarleteen online raffle is live until January 21st! Donate to the raffle for a chance to win fabulous sex toys, books, and merch while supporting Scarleteen, who has been dishing out queer and comprehensive sex ed for 20 years! https://t.co/I7RnXnddEn
Please share! pic.twitter.com/uWnhUR98Gm
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 13, 2019
And our favorite the Magic Wand makes an appearance, as it always should. It’s such a multiple use toy. Also check out thay they are using a condom on the Wand top. This makes clean up easier and also switching from partner to partner safer. #SexEdPornReview
— Amanda Hobson (@amandajohobson) January 15, 2019
Thanks for the love!
NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: Cruising for lesbian hookups, women’s sexual expressions through technology, radical experimental queer porn, deepfakes and more. https://t.co/Yg8Xtje84c
— Autostraddle (@autostraddle) January 6, 2019
Pink & White's director Shine Louise Houston is interviewed in the newest edition of BITCH Magazine: The Pleasure Issue!
Out on newsstands now or subscribe here:https://t.co/LwTjqKXtcW@ShineLouise @BitchMedia @brooklynrwhite #QWOC pic.twitter.com/ObFZGL5XU6
— Pink & White (@PinkWhite) December 15, 2018
We recruit!
ATTN: sex nerds! We're seeking sex bloggers and sexual health educators interested in joining #SexEdPornReviews to review/tweet about new CrashPad episodes, normalizing discussions of porn and sexuality – especially for queer and trans folks. Is this YOU? Email Info@PinkWhite.biz pic.twitter.com/ZK6OGrAMwL
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 10, 2019
Sex nerds: What are your go-to guides (videos, blog, etc) for queer and trans sex ed and relationship information? It’s time to update our Sexual Health and Resources page. (Sex worker friendly/knowledgeable is a plus!) Please RT!https://t.co/Z3S5su0PhK
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 10, 2019
Coming up next…
So excited to film this scene with my real-life girlfriend, @TheEmmaClaire and @CrashPadSeries!! https://t.co/9laAcdvOBy
— Lilian Rose ?⛓ LA 1/30 ONLY! (@xolilianrose) January 10, 2019
Save the date! Our next CrashPad shoot is Saturday, January 19th. Log in and see what it's like to make porn as you watch @ShineLouise and crew film two new episodes of https://t.co/6DyOoMgVoG — in real time!#CrashWithUs #PornStudieshttps://t.co/BoXectHHCa
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 6, 2019
Save the date! Our next https://t.co/6DyOoMgVoG production is Saturday, January 19th. We're working with Emma Claire & @xolilianrose, and #lamfemmebear & Sequoia. #CrashWithUs
— CrashPad Series (@CrashPadSeries) January 10, 2019
Good news! BIRTHDAY by @ShineLouise and a compilation of @CrashPadSeries will screen at @QWOCMAPSF PornNPlay Party on Jan 20th.
More info: https://t.co/K73U1CH2t0 pic.twitter.com/LXrVdt86Tt
— Pink & White (@PinkWhite) December 18, 2018
Thank you!
Thank you Megan Reeves and Blair, and thanks to our panel of sexual health educators and sex bloggers for watching. Want to see see for yourself? Watch here!
